Sex doesn’t always have to be fresh, exciting, and new!
That’s right. If you know what you like, and you like what you know, there is no reason to feel guilty about doing it the same way every time. We don’t feel the need to shake it up (pardon the pun) when masturbating, so why feel any sort of shame when you have found a tried and true way with your sig oth?
This concept is further developed in an article in Psychology Today written by David Schnarch PhD. He argues that stretching beyond your limits of what you are used to is often subconsciously scary for people in a relationship – which is why we tend to do it when we’re in fleeting partnerships.
It’s not that sex is more exciting when you’re with someone new, it’s more that you will take some risks with someone you don’t know that well.
The good news is, you can get laid as often as you want, the way you want, if you let go of all the angst.
Sex is that thing you like to do.
There isn’t any more to it than that.
