It’s very common for people to experience greater sexual pleasure in masturbation than they do with a sex partner. If you are having this experience, you should know you are not alone and it is very common. There are a lot of reasons for this, but the most common is lack of sexual satisfaction from sex with your partner.
The next thing you should know is that if you want to change this, you can. You can try to talk to a partner you feel isn’t touching you the way you want to be touched. You can also use masturbation to experiment with your body and then work with your partner.
All of this depends on the level of commitment and intimacy you are willing to offer your partner.
And of course, it stands to reason, that if you are with someone that is a bit cold in bed, always ‘does it wrong’ or can’t perform in some way, be careful not to label them as deficient. They may be masturbating when you leave the house because you are deficient. If you have a partner who is a little hesitant in bed, then you can be the sort of person they might want to talk to.
That is, of course, if your aim is to experience your greatest orgasm with your partner.
